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The 5 Biggest
Mistakes Men Make With Women
Most
men make a lot of mistakes with women without
realizing it. One of the reasons for this is that
men are being told by their mothers how to find and
meet a “nice girl.” The problem is that your mom is
most likely giving you bad advice that is killing
your chances of having successful relationships with
women.
Here are the top 5 biggest mistakes men make with
women:
1. Trying to impress a woman. You are not at a job
interview so stop offering your resume. Don’t say
how much money you make, don’t say you drive a BMW,
and don’t be a suck-up. And don’t buy her expensive
gifts before you are engaged! Doing these things
bores a woman to death because so many men do it. To
be successful with women, do the exact opposite. You
have to act like YOU are the boss and she is the one
on the job interview, and if she makes a mistake,
she is history. You need to be the one in control.
You must see yourself as the world’s best catch and
for a woman to get you, it is like she is winning
the lottery. Women love the chase and they want what
they cannot have. When you offer yourself to a woman
like a sacrificial lamb, she instantly loses
interest. But when you act confident and aloof like
you are the CEO of a major company or a famous movie
star, all of a sudden you become the man of her
dreams.
2. Acting too nice. When you act super nice around a
woman, she knows you are doing it to impress her and
that your behavior is most likely not the real you.
She knows you are sucking up to her. Stop it! Be
yourself. Joke around. Tease her like she is your
bratty little sister. Act like a man. Remember, you
are the catch and she needs to chase and impress
you.
3. Acting shy or timid. Nothing kills a woman’s
interest more than a man who behaves like a scared
little boy. Be a man. Be bold. You have to be the
one in control. Do you think Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise
behave shy or timid around women? Or course not. You
need to act the same way. Act as if you do not care
if a woman likes you or not. Better yet, assume
every woman sees you as Brad Pitt and wants you. As
many women have told me, it is NOT a man’s
appearance that attracts them. It was the man’s
attitude and confidence. That is why women love bad
boys. Bad boys are very bold and confident and they
just assume women want them. By acting that way,
women do want them.
4. Treating her like she is a goddess and better
than you. Remember, women want to chase the man.
When you treat a woman like she is a goddess that is
out of your league, she loses interest in you. She
wants a man who is so confident that he knows she
would be lucky to be with him. I hope you are
starting to see that that game of love is all about
attitude – NOT looks or money. It is about being
confident about yourself and knowing that women
would be lucky to have you as your boyfriend.
5. Agreeing with everything a woman says because you
want her to like you. Stop it! Women want a man who
has the confidence to stand up for his ideas. A
woman will not respect you if you agree with
everything she says and does. Actually, women like
to say things just to test a man to see what his
response is. They want you to disagree with them
sometimes. They want you to act like a man and stand
up for your ideas and beliefs.
In summary, to be successful with woman, you have to
stop acting like a scared little boy and start
acting like a real man who is confident and who
deserves respect. If you do not feel that way now,
start faking it and in time, you will naturally feel
that way.
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