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How to Meet
Women
The
one magic word that will help you meet women
Women
are complex creatures and all men know this. As men,
we are constantly baffled as to what women are
thinking. This is particularly true in the realm of
love and dating. It seems as if men are just wired
differently than women. But, if there is one thing I
have learned about women, it is that women are
attracted to men who act confidently around women.
Yes, the magic word that will help you attract women
is “confidence.”
Now let’s clarify what type of confidence attracts
women. First of all, confidence is behaving relaxed
and without fear around women. For many men, that is
their greatest weakness. When around women, many men
lose their composure. They get very nervous, they
start to sweat and their mind goes blank. Basically,
they act shy and timid. Women hate that kind of
behavior because in a primal way, it shows you are
not a strong man worthy of being a suitable mate.
So, how do you act confident around women? Here are
a few skills you need to master:
1. Make eye contact. Yes, this may sound scary but
you have to do it. When you look into a woman’s
eyes, it shows you are confident and not afraid of
her. If you study men who are very successful with
women, you will notice that they make a ton of eye
contact with women. Women find this to be a turn-on.
However, do not stare like a stalker. Look for 2-3
seconds and smile and then casually look away. Then
look again.
2. Do everything you can to act comfortable and
relaxed around women. Act as if you were just
hanging out with a couple of your buddies. If you
want some good role models for how to act relaxed
around women, watch the movie “Wedding Crashers.”
Look how comfortable Vince Vaughn and Owen Wilson
act around women. They are not the least bit afraid
of women and they just have fun. Confidence is an
attitude of not being afraid. Master your feelings
of fear around women and you have won 99% of the
game.
3. Smile. Smiles are magic and many women have told
me that they melt when a man smiles at them. You
know how to smile right? Good! Starting doing it.
4. Tease. Yes, that’s right. Tease women in a fun
playful way. Poke fun at them but do it nicely.
Don’t be a jerk. When you tease a woman, it shows
you are not afraid of her and it shows her that you
are interested. If she smiles and teases back, she
is interested. Now go for the phone number.
5. Ask the woman for her phone number and a day or
two later, call and ask her out on a casual date.
This is the difference between men that are
successful with women and men that are not. Men who
have the courage to ask women out get lots of dates.
Men who are shy and timid do not ask women out and
therefore, get to spend their nights home alone
watching TV. Do you have the courage to ask a woman
for her phone number? If you do, 50% of the time you
will succeed. Think of ask for a phone number as the
#1 test a women uses to judge if a man is confident.
If a man does not have the courage to ask her out,
then he does not have what it takes to be her
boyfriend.
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